In my clinical activity I often follow families who find themselves in the middle of the separation process, and my work perspective is aimed at identifying signs of possible evolu-tion, of resources that, despite the pain of losses suffered and projects not fully realized, allow for a transition to a new phase of family life. The recurring impression is that important ele-ments relating to the history of the couple relationship and regarding critical events that have gone through it, remain tacit, hindering the transition to a new phase of life and family reor-ganization.
The purpose of this article is to identify some of these fundamental and necessary elements so that we can promote the transition to a new family response that allows for a real growth of individuals and ties.
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Keywords: Llink, transformation, pact, grief, recognition