Violent family life styles and their effects on the children - Violence upon children and adolescents is connected with relationship styles that are characterised by family’s violence. Violence is a pathology that can be transferred, that brings suffer, pain and if isn’t cured becomes chronic. Often isn’t simple identify violence, it is silent and has different shapes: words, acts, education, atmosphere and becomes lived as the only way to have a relationship with other people, influencing the quality of communication and of affective relationship. Sons are weak subjects in a asymmetry relationship with his parents. Sons suffer from this situation and becomes victims, with a lot of sorrows and bad consequences. Ask ourselves about the necessity of do something before the born of sorrows and difficult uneasiness becomes the first thing to do, by creating a way of prevention through identification of danger bands; in a general consideration of the problem also in a culture models level that are transmitted and slip into familiar styles.
Parole chiave: violenza, violenza assistita, stili di vita familiare, relazioni.
Key words: violence, assisted violence, family life style, relationships.