Different and equal: getting to know same-sex parent families through a systemic and relational approach

Author/s Silvia Di Battista
Publishing Year 2019 Issue 2018/48 Language Italian
Pages 21 P. 54-74 File size 346 KB
DOI 10.3280/PR2018-048002
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This paper aims at exploring some psychosocial aspects concerning parenting in same-sex couples, associated prejudices and the entrance of these new types of family to psychological counselling and psychotherapeutic practice. The relational systemic approach can represent an important resource to get to know this type of family.

Keywords: Same-sex parents, prejudice, systemic and relational ap-proach.

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