Separazione dei genitori e delusione affettiva in adolescenza. Un contributo clinico

Titolo Rivista MALTRATTAMENTO E ABUSO ALL’INFANZIA
Autori/Curatori Alessandro Ridolfi, Paolo Materassi, Arianna Cecchi
Anno di pubblicazione 2023 Fascicolo 2023/1 Lingua Italiano
Numero pagine 21 P. 73-93 Dimensione file 221 KB
DOI 10.3280/MAL2023-001006
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Il lavoro clinico con adolescenti figli di genitori separati costituisce il nucleo di queste ri-flessioni, dedicate alla delusione affettiva vissuta a seguito di tale evento familiare. Questa attività, riferita ad un ambulatorio territoriale (in due comuni dell’area fiorentina Nord-Ovest) del Servizio di Salute Mentale Infanzia e Adolescenza dell’Azienda USL Toscana centro, si inserisce nel contesto del mandato istituzionale di tutela del minore e di sostegno alla famiglia che il Servizio sanitario riceve dai tribunali nei casi di separazione conflittuale. A partire dai risultati delle ricerche recenti sull’argomento vengono presentate alcune considerazioni teoriche di carattere evolutivo-intersoggettivo e esperienziale-affettivo. Infine sono proposte alcune considerazioni riguardo all’intervento clinico.;

Keywords:delusione, separazione, divorzio, adolescenza, sfiducia.

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Alessandro Ridolfi, Paolo Materassi, Arianna Cecchi, Separazione dei genitori e delusione affettiva in adolescenza. Un contributo clinico in "MALTRATTAMENTO E ABUSO ALL’INFANZIA" 1/2023, pp 73-93, DOI: 10.3280/MAL2023-001006